Why Self Defense for Families is Important

As a parent, it is my duty to raise my child the right way. Yes, this means that I am raising a small human to be kind, creative, responsible and trustworthy, but it also means that I need to raise him to be strong, brave, with a knowledge on how to protect himself and his future family. 2017 is a scary place since crime is increasing and we never know what might be thrown our way, so it is essential to be prepared for the worst, while hoping for the best. Because of this mindset, I believe that it is extremely important for families to know how to protect themselves in the worst case scenario. In my opinion, self defense is important for families to learn because…

Learning how to protect yourself is essential

Like I mentioned above, the last few years have been unlike any other in the past. Lately, we have had to deal with hundreds and thousands of scary scenarios in this crazy world. If we have learned anything from watching the news and hearing the crazy stories, it is that everyone is susceptible to getting caught up in a bad situation. Because of this, learning to protect yourself is essential in the case that you do get caught in a scary situation.

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The skills you use can be put to use throughout your life

Self defense skills do not stop being useful at a specific age – your skills are of use your entire life and on top of that, they are not just useful to yourself. They are useful to anyone and everyone around you. When learning self defense as a child, you will carry that set of skills around you for the rest of your life, which will enhance your future families lives, as well.

You are getting exercise

It is a known fact that Americans commonly suffer from obesity and I will go out of my way to teach my son to take care of his body in order to stay healthy and fit. A perk of taking self defense classes is getting the exercise that a lot of Americans are missing out on.

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You can make it a family activity

We are busy with work and social lives, but family activities are also extremely important, as well. Taking self defense classes as a family can be a useful and fun way to bond as a family! Another great thing about going in as a family is that you will meet other families going in for the same reason. You can improve your family bond, improve your self awareness and also make friends and improve your social skills, as well!

You improve your quality of life

Going through life being scared of what could happen is no way to live. We need to teach our children to be brave and strong and fearless, and I believe that we can do this by giving them the skills of learning to protect themselves in a scary situation. If you are confident that you can protect yourself, you will not be scared of anything that comes your way. Being confident is not only helpful when you want to protect you, but it boosts your overall mood each day.

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Now that you know a few reasons why you should learn how to protect yourselves as a family, here are some ideas for actually putting that idea into action:

Look into self defense classes in your area

Almost every single city has some type of self defense class in your area. All you have to do is Google “self defense classes” and your zip code or city and I am sure something will come up. If for some reason you do not have a class in your area, check online for simple videos.

Find a weapon that suits you

There are many weapons out there that can help you protect yourself, when your own body skills won’t do the trick. One great weapon that you can look into is getting a knife or sword from Swords of Northshire. They sell functional swords, historical weapons, and also accessories. Their goal “is to exceed your expectations, and in turn, create a new standard for the sword industry.” Because customer service is their highest priority, they make it easy to contact them via email, phone number, chat, or through a fill out form. If you check out their reviews and ratings on their website, you will hear about the great customer service and the quality work. Swords of Northshire offers blades that are hand forged by craftsman who have passed the art down from the ancestors of the Japanese Samurai, so you know that you will always get a product that not only meets your expectations, but exceeds them, like their goal states.

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Learn to use that weapon properly

No matter what weapon you choose to wield, you always need to learn how to properly use it to make sure both yourself and others are safe. This will give you practice (more information on this in a minute) to sharpen your skills!

Practice, practice, practice

The more you practice, the better you will get at your skill set in self defense. This is important because if you do get stuck in a bad situation, you need to make sure you are practiced and prepared.

Learning self defense with your family is important in order to prepare ourselves. Although you are preparing for dangerous situations, make sure you do not scare your children with your talk. Instead, tell them that you are taking self defense classes to get stronger and learn how to protect themselves. This will forever benefit their lives!

Ruffles and Embroidery

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DRESS: SheIn

PURSE: Tory Burch

SHOES: Target


How adorable is this ruffle embroidered dress from SheIn?! Ruffles and embroidery is totally trending right now. This dress is super comfy and for less than $30 including shipping making it a total steal!! SheIn has been one of my FAVORITE online retailers for years now! The prices are extremely affordable and the quality is great. I know a lot of people are skeptical about shopping with an online retailers who’s prices are so affordable, but trust me when I say I have purchases a ton of items and have never once been disappointed!

If you have any questions feel free to email me at shelbysoileau@yahoo.com!

Thanks for stopping by! ❤

Drinkable Salad

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Busy days are the best excuse to heat unhealthy. Why? Because 9 times out of 10 a healthy meal takes minutes to cook and then you are left over with a bunch of dirty dishes, whereas on-the-go food or fast food is much quicker, no mess, and usually MUCH cheaper!!

Discovering Salad Power has changed my life!! These drinkable salads make it so easy to grab a meal and go. Not only are they easy but they are WAY healthier than a lot of other name brand juices like Naked, Bolthouse Farms, and Odwalla. Salad Power has an extremely low amount of sugar and calories! They are also 100% gluten free, vegan, and paleo! If you’re looking to get that summer body, these juices are definitely the way to go!!

The Smarter Way to Grocery Shop

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GROCERIES: Milk & Eggs

JACK’S TANK: Little Gypsy Finery

PATIO SET: ikea


The other day I made these yummy fruit snacks with all of our fresh ingredients from Milk & Eggs! Talk about YUMMY!!! If you read my first post about Milk & Eggs, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about! This grocery delivery service is cheaper than the grocery store and they offer free shipping. It’s literally a win all around!!

This would seriously be a perfect Mother’s Day surprise! They have a variety of yummy breakfast croissants, muffins, bagels, and much more!! Talk about the easiest way to surprise your loved one with breakfast in bed. On top of that, the grocery shopping for the week has been done!! I’ve linked a few things below that would be perfect for breakfast on Mother’s Day! 🙂

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Cheese Danish

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Cinnamon Roll Pastry

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Ham & Cheese Croissant Pastry

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Au Raisin Pastry